Through having and seeing a great many failed relationships I have done many years of research, inner reflection and have come to see that the reason most people fail in relationships is because we weren’t taught how to be in a relationship.  We are only taught how to have safe sex and not how to have a successful relationship.  Through my research I have found that there are five basic natural progressive stages in all relationships.  All of the successful relationships that I have witness or read about are so because of the successful navigation through these steps.  I outline them in this book and give people an insight into navigating them and hopefully you too can have a successful relationship, if this is what you want.

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One of Mustafa Life’s Man’s perspective series. This book is designed to teach people to realize that all the things that they say or use as excuses on why they can’t achieve their goals are illusions. The only thing that prevents us from achieving our goal is us. The problem is that we have been improperly thinking and acting and so we have been in our own way getting the wrong results. Many of us have not been properly taught and don’t have the correct tools to get out of our own way and have the success that we can get. Getting out of your own way from a man’s perspective teaches you how to get out of your own way by thinking supreme, acting supreme and you will achieve supreme results.

For years, like so many people, I was trapped in the illusionary world of being less than the best that I could be in life.  I have used every excuse from race, poor background to not having the things that others had to make it.  I finally was fed up with not being and having what I knew I deserved.  I wanted to break free of the enslaved mental prison and be who I knew I could be.  I did just that and in doing so I came to realize that I could help others.  I realized that through my experiences there were people like me that was tired of settling for less than they had and could achieve.  That they, like I was, were seeking a solution that could help them. Through my journey I have created a system that I call the Supreme Life System. This system is designed to help all who want it, to be the best them that they can be, a Supreme Being.  That's right, a Supreme Human Being.  This system will help you in every aspect of your life to be the very best you that you can be.   

It seems that everybody today is talking about mental health and past trauma,

but the moment black people start talking about such things as the historical slavery trauma of black people, people get upset. They don't want us to talk about it and as most say, we should get over it. Yet we can't and it's because we haven't been able to address this and many other forms of trauma that we have and continue to experience. Just like others have the right to tell their story, so do we in the Black African community here in America.

Let’s talk about the trauma in the black community  takes a look at some of the trauma that we have experienced and that people don't want to talk about. Doing so as a starting point for those who wish to help us help ourselves.It is not meant to lay blame even though we can in some cases. It however is to show what we as a community are truly suffering from, even if many don't realize it. While this book doesn't cover all that we suffer from, it is a starting point as I said so that people can open their eyes and start to address things. To help stop pushing these serious topics under the rug and we finally can do some deep diving into them.